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by Isaac Suttell
Anonymous: What is 50 shades of grey about? And what's so bad about it?





50 Shades of Grey was originally fanfiction based on the Twilight series, which was then published as a novel (along with 2 subsequent books). It sold over 100 million copies around the world and topped best-seller lists everywhere. It’s about to be adapted into a film, set to come out early next year.

It follows a college student named Ana Steele, who enters a relationship with a man named Christian Grey and is then introduced to a bastardised and abusive parody of BDSM culture.

While the book is paraded as erotica, the relationship between Ana and Christian is far from healthy. The core mantra of the BDSM community is “safe, sane and consensual”, and 50 Shades is anything but. None of the rules of BDSM practices (which are put in place to protect those involved) are actually upheld. Christian is controlling, manipulative, abusive, takes complete advantage of Ana, ignores safe-words, ignores consent, keeps her uneducated about the sexual practices they’re taking part in, and a multitude of other terrible things. Their relationship is completely sickening and unhealthy.

Basically, “the book is a glaring glamorisation of violence against women,” as Amy Bonomi so perfectly put it. 

It’s terrible enough that a book like this has been absorbed by people worldwide. Now, we have a film that is expected to be a huge box-office success, and will likely convince countless more young women that it’s okay not to have any autonomy in a relationship, that a man is allowed to control them entirely. It will also show many young men that women are theirs to play with and dominate, thus contributing to antiquated patriarchal values and rape culture.


Boycott this fucking movie, for the love of god. These kinds of ideas are dangerous and set us back as a society 

Boycott, boycott, boycott. As said above, BDSM is not the problem. It is also not present in 50 Shades. 50 Shades is abuse; it is not BDSM.


late night body appreciation post because i met my mum yesterday and she made some comments about my weight gain (and she’s the only person i’m taking serious when it comes to this issue) but i’m trying my best to stay strong and to continue becoming more and more confident with my body everyday! i’ve never felt so comfortable with my body as i do now and i never want to feel unhappy with my body again as i did back then when i was suffering from my ed. this is not only for myself but for everybody: weight doesn’t define your beauty!!!! good night ♥
wearin’ my bikini top hand crocheted by Luna which I bought from her shop moon tribe. I love it so much!!!
miaowin around
a mid-summer rainy Vancouver night seems a good time as any to post a pic of the sunnies that arrived the other day ¤ I love them but I feel so dressed up in them! guess I’m feeling relatively low key right now.. hah </stoner fashion ramble>

tumblr is full of lovely models to reference :) …..drawww…..

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this week a bunch of things came in the mail ( ^ 0 ^ ) today, this awesome sailor moon shirt arrived; I’ll take a better pic when it’s not so wrinkled from being shipped. Also I finally got to see my friend Julia, who’s been living in Taiwan. She gave me this beautiful choker she made for me. I love it sooo much! !! 

when a babely lady hits on you and you don’t catch on until you’re leaving the party!!!!!!!1 whaaaat nooooo. 

I need thiiiiiis
got a bunch of supa kewt bobby pins, including these donuts ones, from SweetPeachBtq on etsy! Check her shop out, lots of cute stuff, everything is very affordable, and she has a 20% off code up right now!